It Takes a Damn Village!

June 5th, 2012 Comments Off

During your pregnancy you may have taken some childbirth classes and read all the books under the sun about pregnancy and birth.  Labor only lasts a day (or 3 for some) and then it’s over. Now that you have given birth to your baby (or babies) what the hell do you do now?  It’s very easy to get lost in the pregnancy and the idea of a baby.  The reality of having a baby is much different then the idea of one.  Nothing really can prepare you other than jumping right in.  When I meet with my doula clients we talk a lot about the birth plan and the pregnancy.  I also make it a point to talk about the first two weeks after the baby arrives.  People are often afraid to ask for help in those first few weeks.  Your friends and family want to help.  Take advantage.  They usually stop offering once the babies get a bit older and they start focusing more on their own lives than your new baby’s arrival.  Take advantage when the luster of a new baby is shining bright.  Let people wait on you hand and foot.  Staying in bed with your new bub helps to establish breastfeeding by lying skin to skin.  If  you are not breastfeeding this skin to skin contact is so important for bonding in those early days.  Eat tons of hearty simple foods.  Staying nourished so your body can heal is essential for getting those hormones back in check.

Here is some info from The Whole Life Nutrition Kitchen:

Good foods to nourish a post partum mom:

Plenty of purified water
Wild salmon
Organic chicken and vegetable soup with plenty of fresh herbs
Greens!! Fresh salad greens, dark leafy greens, and green smoothies
Sweet vegetables (yams, squash, carrots, beets)
Raw nuts and seeds (almonds, walnuts, pumpkin seeds, sunflower seeds)
Raw almond butter
Whole grains (quinoa, amaranth, oats, sweet brown rice, millet, teff)
Organic berries
Sea vegetables
Lentils
Carminative herbs and spices (cumin, cardamom, fenugreek, ginger, mint, fennel seeds)
Raspberry leaf tea (raspberry leaf along with fennel help to contract the uterus)
Nettle tea enriches and increases milk production
Healthy fats (avocado, extra virgin olive oil, virgin coconut oil, fresh flax or fish oil)

 

Foods to avoid during the post partum period (may cause upset in newborn baby):

Dairy products
Citrus fruit, especially juices
Peanuts
Heavily spiced foods
Beef
Raw garlic and onions
Cruciferous vegetables (broccoli, cauliflower, cabbage)
Wheat / Gluten
Refined soy products
Caffeine (coffee, tea, soda)
Chocolate
Prenatal vitamins (the iron may be irritating to baby)
So now that you know what to be eating have your friends and family bring you food.  If they offer take them up on it.  It’s nice not to worry about anything other than your new baby.  Laundry, cleaning, and errands can all be passed off to a family member or friend. Consider the help of a postpartum doula if family is far away and no help is available to you.  According to the DONA what a postpartum doula does changes from day-to-day, as the needs of the family change. Postpartum doulas do whatever a mother needs to best enjoy and care for her new baby. A large part of their role is education. They share information about baby care with parents, as well as teach siblings and partners to “mother the mother.” They assist with breastfeeding education. Postpartum doulas also make sure the mother is fed, well hydrated and comfortable.  Ask for help if you are having any problems with breastfeeding and/or any newborn care.  Kellymom is my favorite for nursing issues and/or concerns.  Don’t be afraid to call your pediatrician or a lactation consultant if problems arise.  Last but not least consider eating your placenta.  I know some of you may think this is yucky but if you’ve eaten Micky D’s you’ve put way grosser shit in your body.  Encapsulation is a super easy non-gross way to reap the benefits of eating you placenta. I love that Time magazine titled an article  Afterbirth: It’s What’s For Dinner.  If this isn’t your cup of tea then kindly ignore.  Good luck and take the help of that damn village.  They tend to disappear when that newborn phase is over.


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